Mom blog where dreams are made

About Us

Hi! Welcome to Dream Bilum!

First of all, thank you so much for dropping by!

Dream Bilum is where I come to write and find myself. Sometime ago, I rediscovered my passion for writing once more and I never looked back. In this site you will find resources for literature both Papua New Guinea and abroad. 

Growing up I had a very imaginative mind. I would picture myself flying or talking with animals. When I reached grade one, I started collecting books and read encyclopedias and slept on atlas maps. I would also write poems and short stories then give to my family members to read, or keep as gifts. I was so passionate about reading and writing!

I named this blog site Dream Bilum because Bilum is made in my country, Papua New Guinea, and dreams are the foundation for my stories.

Bilum is a hand-woven bag that is made here in my country using natural string and wool.

The bilum is woven with different designs and colour patterns on it.

The weaving is wonderful to watch – if you have a lot of time – and the end result is an amazing bag that is used as a handbag for women, and school bag for students. The bigger bilums are woven with bigger holes to carry babies in like a huge baby carrier, and for the carrying garden produce.

Just recently, our local mothers have been using this magical weaving talent to create bilum dresses and ponchos that are displayed at annual fashion runways here in the country.

Dream bilum is where you will find helpful and inspiring tips to enrich you on your journey as you care for your family.

The ‘Tribal’ life…

We live in Port Moresby, Papua New Guinea (PNG) , an island nation just north of Australia. Our country has mountainous terrains, virgin forests, sandy and rocky coastlines and very friendly, smiling, people. 

Here in PNG, we have a culture that is built on family and tribe. Therefore, it is quite normal to walk into a PNG family home and be greeted by a tribe.

Most times this way of living has been good for security, sharing of financial responsibilities and child minding.

Most PNG women who need to work in a 8 to 5 job don’t need to find a babysitter for her kids, there is always aunty Mary or grandmother Rose around to mind the children.

In this blog you will find insights on our PNG way of living, island food and our methods of cooking, island DIY project ideas, Hot (sometimes literally!) and exotic PNG tourist destinations and vital tips for stay-at-home mothers as we bring up our little angels in the way that they should go.

My three little Bosses…

I was working at an 8-5 job at Lily Magazine as a senior writer in 2015 when I decided to resign and stay home with my kids. I had come home one evening to find out that my children’s babysitter was leaving them alone in the house during the day.

It was a bit of a tough decision for me because one of my million dreams growing up was to work in a magazine, writing delightful stories and wearing artsy fashion clothes to work…yes, just like in the movies.

Apart from that I was thinking about myself and that I was going to be a nobody and have no worth and just be utterly useless…truly silly and selfish notions I know.

Let me explain why.

Back then I had very low self esteem and so my previous job (at the Parliament house), and then at Lily Magazine had sort of given me a sense of purpose and meaning.

All these negative thoughts were forcefully pushed to the back when I realized that my children needed me more than they needed my salary, the occasional ice cream and eating out.

My eldest son was only four years old at that time and my daughter three.

Well despite that, I began a wonderful life with my kids at home. We welcomed our third child, my kids’ little brother, in 2016.

My two bigger kids are now in primary school so my younger son, Andy, and I have the house to ourselves until lunchtime when the bigger ones return.

I won’t deny that by ten o’clock every night I collapse like a log onto my bed after Asher, Lovelyn and Andy are asleep.

Is motherhood tiring?

yes it is…but it is also fulfilling and a very rewarding job because you are nurturing and building up little angels who will one day be stars in their own happy stories. But what is more important is that they are safe at home, and I am helping to mold them into good little humans as they grow.

My partner, Andrew, is a wonderful person who is supportive and kind. He too had been worried about my decision to resign, only because he thought that I may not be too happy about it later because of my love for writing and the travelling that came with my jobs.

Andrew helped me secure some writing projects and just recently I completed thirteen generic articles – in one night – for our mall magazine, Vision City mega mall, here in Port Moresby.

I used the payment I received from this freelance job to purchase the domain name for Dream Bilum.

Other places I walk…

I also have a story blog, where you can find stories written about special people who have captured the heart and minds of others with the story of their lives.

Dream Bilum has a Facebook page (Dream Bilum PNG) where you can follow stories, poems and images from PNG and the world.

Dream Bilum is just growing so I can’t give you tips how to monetize your blog but I can tell you how to create a blog just like this one using one of the best web hosts I have come across, Siteground. I created mine using I’ll create a page on that soon.

I’m currently writing the second series for my children’s books, Neamas. You can check out my books on Amazon here.

If you would like to know how to create your own blog there are countless other sites out there, but, I can point you to this amazing blog, that I follow, and have learnt a lot of great tips for creating a great blog from.

I hope you learn a thing or two as you follow me on this epic journey of motherhood and writing.